Life

Do You Remember Your Prom?

I remember mine. It was quite a while ago now, 15 years at least, and proms just weren’t such a big thing here as they were over previously. It was more like a big party to see everyone before you knuckled down, did your exams, and then scattered all over the country to various universities.

I didn’t really have the money to buy a proper dress for various reasons so I decided to make my own. This wasn’t a surprise to anyone – my grandparents worked as a tailor and seamstress so I’d been brought up sewing for most of my life. In fact, for the graduation ceremony, which takes place after prom night, students now purchase graduation caps and gowns from online retailers like Jostens ahead of time. We didn’t have that luxury where we could sit at home and buy things for ourselves. We needed to go to the market to find them. A high school graduation ceremony honors students who have completed all of their academic and extracurricular requirements for graduation. The ceremony provides a public venue for graduating students to receive their diplomas, officially marking their completion of high school. However, it used to be more of an adieu for students who would disperse across the country for various courses or jobs.

Anyway, talking about the prom the dress, it was fine, but I have no idea what I was thinking when it came to choosing the fabric! I’m a very small person. Just 5ft tall and I was a pretty slim teenager. For some reason I decided to use a black fabric with huge flowers printed on it. It would have looked great on someone eight inches taller than me! Even with skyscraper high heels I still managed to get lost in that floral print!

My dress that I made for my boyfriend’s sixth form ball was much better. It was navy satin, backless, with a plunging neckline. I wish I still had the pattern today, it would be so in style right now! I think I learned from seeing the pictures of my own ball and chose a plain fabric instead. Now if I’m buying or making a dress for a formal occasion I always buy plain colours. Patterns are just so hard to pull of when you’re petite!

What I’d Have Done Differently

Aside from choosing a different dress fabric, I think I’d have hired a cool car to drop me off and pick me up. The hotel that the event was at had a beautiful huge driveway where everyone having drinks could see you arrive.

I wasn’t cool at school, but I’ve always had a bit of a soft spot for lovely cars. I especially love sports cars in racing livery – this car here would have been perfect for me!

The American trend for having pre-prom photos taken in your dress is really nice and I hope that takes off over here. The only photos my parents have of me really from when I was a teenager are my horrible school uniform photos. The opportunity to have “senior” photos done in a fancy ball gown with a nice car would be something that I think most young people would treasure forever.

There are some great prom car hire ideas here. I had a friend at school who would have loved the 60s V-Dub they have on their list. And could you imagine turning up to your sixth form ball or prom in a replica of the Ghostbusters car? Or a New York yellow taxi cab?

So many teenagers now are finding it much easier to express themselves because of the way that social media and the internet has transformed our culture. I like to think that turning up to their big send-off from school or college could be a wonderful extension of that.